November 22, 2006

to do or not to do.

i handed in my resignation letter today with a heavy heart. my boss then talked right before i went home and pleaded that i reconsider this decision of mine. an hour later, i saw a msg on my phone from her again and it sorta made me feel worst. should i stay or should i go? i have till tomorrow to decide.

out of the four people who know my situation best, three told me to not continue. bahs, damn stress wei. what say you all? till then, today marks my last day at work. resigned within 24 hours.

(/edited) @ 12.30am.
also, stoney will be going for three surgeries (but none for his cataract). his left eye is apparently bad (SO MUCH FOR SAYING IT'S AN EARLY STAGE RITE!) and the specialist does not suggest the major eye surgery we wanted because it will cause him more harm and it does not guarantee anything AND may cost him his life. i'm seriously damn stressed about all this lil things. and the thought of not being able to do anything but just let him go blind slowly is a painful thought. IT'S BLOODY KILLING ME! and when things get too bad, we'll have to put him to sleep. sighs. life's just unfair now, isnt it. oh, and it's not cheap either. a minimum of RM3k. great, now ginger (iskii's cat) will have to support us both with its photoshoot money.

Posted by becky at November 22, 2006 11:44 PM
Comments

i say do what you think is most benificial for your future without sacrificing your self respect and happiness :)

Posted by: sabs at November 22, 2006 11:56 PM

haha thanks sabby. damn diplomatic wei ur advice. :D

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 23, 2006 12:11 AM

if you can take all those stress then consider it, i f you are unhappy and full of stress, then just leave no question

Posted by: michy at November 23, 2006 12:25 AM

yupp! if u dont like the job, stop. why bother working and doing sth u dont like.

Posted by: Maxine at November 23, 2006 12:32 AM

sp, actually, not the job stress ler. more to ... management la in a way. dunno, but they admit their mistakes also ler. :/

but thank you. will consider your point.

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 23, 2006 12:33 AM

my boss said rite max, every job we do, sure have to do stuffs we dont like. and she said she knows i dont like a lot of stuffs but yet i still do it well and that's what she calls profesionalism or something like that la. :D

ooo, i sat beside alvey yest. :)

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 23, 2006 12:35 AM

just found out his name.

random info.

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 23, 2006 12:35 AM

emmm since i duno wht kind of job u doing now and wht kind of situation u having now, so darling no advice from me lah..unfair oso cos normally i will ask ppl to think twice b4 resign....so darling do wht ever u think good for u and dont listen to other people follow ur heart ok? ;)

Posted by: zura@mama at November 23, 2006 09:12 AM

wahahaha. my situation is... tough. lol.

job is ok, management yang i tak boleh tahan ler. but then my boss macam so kesian all. dunno ler. ppl are telling me not to kesiankan my boss but to think of myself. :(

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 23, 2006 09:50 AM

Hi, i dont know about your job anyth
ing at all, but one thing i know that you can not find the perfect situation in any company, if the managment are ok, then the job is not good, if the job is good the managment have problem.

one thing i can tell you, if you need the money at the end of the month, stay with this job no matter how suffering you untill you secure the new job, as the job market these days is very difficult and not easy to find a job, but if you no need the money at the end of the month, then resign and do not disturb yourself in the office that you are not happy with it.

wish you all the best.

Posted by: Goodboy at November 23, 2006 10:40 AM

hahaha goodboy, you sound EXACTLY like my mother!!!! :D

i'll think about it. thinking thinking. :(

but thanks! :)

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 23, 2006 10:44 AM

yeah true think abt our self first not others except our closed family....ur boss definately stranger to u..he/she wont even know wht the situation u having now or wat u feel abt tht company...soooo if u not happy darling..go cabut angkat kaki lolz heheheeh :P

Posted by: zura@mama at November 23, 2006 10:54 AM

if this is a case, i think you stay with your current job , as your mum know you and your situation and she want the best for you, at the same time try to look for the better job, once that one is confirm you resign from current one, please think twice......

Posted by: Goodboy at November 23, 2006 11:03 AM

woa. darling zura says leave.

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 23, 2006 11:12 AM

but goodboy says stay. *faints*

but goodboy, my dad told me to leave. :/

man, so confused! :(

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 23, 2006 11:13 AM

All i can say is if you ain't happy there then just leave. Why bother waking up in the morning and dreading the day ahead?

I acted on impluse once and just left but in retrospect I should have found another job before resigning. Maybe you should get something else first before leaving.

Posted by: Sunil at November 23, 2006 11:34 AM

the main point is that do you need the money or not????? if the money is not an issue for you then leave and look for the job that you like.... but if you need the money to pay your bills....then no one will helping you while you are jobless.....

Posted by: Goodboy at November 23, 2006 11:38 AM

omg, it's ... SUNIL!!! :O

*gasp*

ive already left actually. now i just have to decide if i should go back or just look for another. :(

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 23, 2006 11:39 AM

ok. someone just offered me another interview.

to tell you the truth, channel v offered me an interview.

and then my friend called and told me about grey advertising agency.

both are such huge agencies. like SUPER BIG.

and i mean, to have channel v to consider me is like ... WOW!

yes, money is an issue but not the main issue. the main issue is because of management.

and now, as i talked to another friend, she asked me to go back to her production house because i was suppose to go for interview last time but i didnt after i got this job.

it made me feel like i can do so much better. dont we all wanna do something bigger so we can prove ourselves to the world what we're capable of?

i know la, im super ambitious for someone with lil working experience but if i can, why not?

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 23, 2006 11:44 AM

haha i guess i say leave edi true lah tu haahah..
Ehemm...aiyooo u leave edi maaaa then dun turn back lah...hehe :D

Posted by: zura@mama at November 23, 2006 11:47 AM

u resigned??

found a new job yet??

Posted by: Cavin at November 23, 2006 02:12 PM

whos alvey?

Posted by: Maxine at November 23, 2006 02:22 PM

http://FreeOnlineSurveys.com/rendersurvey.asp?sid=op7y4q56hoee2ho242910

thank u becky =)

Posted by: U know who =) at November 23, 2006 03:27 PM

darling zura, yeaps. i quit for good! :) thank you!! :-*

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 23, 2006 06:13 PM

cavin, yea quit. no, no new job.

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 23, 2006 06:13 PM

maxine, http://star-ecentral.com/news/story.asp?file=/2006/10/23/tvnradio/15777925&sec=tvnradio.

but cannot really see his face la. he looks better in real life.

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 23, 2006 06:21 PM

Channel [V] definately. Grey what account first? I deal with Grey so i know some people inside. Do what your heart tells you! :D

Posted by: Sunil at November 23, 2006 06:22 PM

sandy you spammer! :P have you changed the age thingy? and it is not stupidity when you dont do a survey because it does not have your age there. :D i'm sure you would've wanted your survey to be accurate! :P

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 23, 2006 06:23 PM

wah sunil is back!!! HAHAHA.

i dunno what account ler. :/ i didnt ask. lol. anyway, i followed the 'sign' and yay, i quit for good! :)

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 23, 2006 06:23 PM

Woah you like online 24-7? Reply so fast somemore post comment on my blog! :D

If possible should have resigned middle of Decemeber so can party till New Year then start work in Jan. (quoted from a friend)

Posted by: Sunil at November 23, 2006 06:50 PM

usually it's the management that makes people stress not the job, even if they admit their mistakes, do you think it will be any different if you continue working for them? But being managers .. umm. Maybe they say those stuff also to lure you back. There are so many other jobs out there, I'm sure one out there suits you well with the right people. Just be patient okay.

Posted by: michy at November 24, 2006 12:45 AM

sunil, muehehehehe. cannot la. mid dec, boss cabuting to korea for hols all. i cant quit. but ya, i should've waited till i get a job. oh well, if i cant, then take it as a long unpaid holiday la. lol.

and i reply fast cos coincidentally, im erm online ler. lol. not cos im an online geek k. :P

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 24, 2006 03:15 AM

thank you sp for the motivating words. ich liebe dich!! :)

quit for good!!! :D :D :D

yay! more time for sp. :)

Posted by: tIcKLe`Me at November 24, 2006 03:21 AM